What you’re probably seeing is :
One 12-2 cable Power IN
One 12-2 cable Switched PowerOUT
12-3 cable to the second 3-way switch
To determine “Your” wire colors…..Open the second switch…..One 3 wire cable…No other wires correct ?
The 12-3 ColorWire connected to the Painted/Dark screw is the Common….
The other two 12-3 ColorWires are the Travelers……..Connect Travelers to Travelers(screws) at the first switch…
PowerIN and PowerOUT neutrals connect….
PowerIN Black connects to First SwitchCommon….
PowerOut Black connects to the common 12-3 ColorWire from the second 3-way switch.
“……measure Once…..cut Twice….
throw that one away and cut a new one….”