About 12 years ago, my brother-in-law tried to help and surprise us (my husband & I)by putting a heavy, horrible, solid, redwood finish on our beautiful natural,expensive, siding. I was in “tears for years”. It looked like a very cheap “shack” !!! Now,after alot of time and work, we may have the house we always wanted. My question is; what do you suggest for trim and windows etc. ???? Please HELP!!